35 Best Vibrators for Beginners That Are Affordable and Easy to Use
Let’s get one thing straight: Masturbation is healthy, and finding the best vibrators for beginners is a glorious step you can take towards elevating your self-care routine. Available in all shapes, forms, and sizes, the best vibrator will not only empower you in your sex life but can also help you learn more about your body.
“The first time you buy a sex toy (you can find many on Amazon), it can feel like a crapshoot because you don’t have any idea what you like yet,” says Rachael Rose, certified sex educator and relationship coach. “Vibrators are intended for external use, some for internal/penetrative use, and some for both,” she explains.
Many vibrators also have unique features like various patterns, speeds, and suction technology. From bullet vibrators to double-ended quiet vibrators, there are tons of great options that’ll help you figure out what feels good for you and what doesn’t.
So, give yourself the gift of pleasure for Valentine’s Day (don’t forget about your friends, too!). If you’re unsure of how to use it, we’ve got you covered. We’ve asked a few sex experts for all the deets on what first-time users need to know in the hunt to find the best vibrators because everyone deserves ~good vibrations~.
What are the different types of vibrators and what materials are safe to use?
There are vibrators available for all types of needs/wants, including bullet, clitoral, tongue, vulva, and wand vibes.
“Materials also matter when it comes to sex toys and keeping them clean,” says Jess O’Reilly, sexologist and podcast host of Sex With Dr. Jess. She recommends going for toys made with 100% silicone, borosilicate glass, ABS plastic, or stainless steel, which can all be easily cleaned. “Porous materials [such as] jelly, plastic, rubber, and PVC are harder to clean. Even if you wipe the surface, bacteria can live in the pores, so I recommend you use condoms with these toys, if possible,” advises O’Reilly.
How to choose and use the best vibrators
It’s up to you to find out what your body likes the most—and when you do, you’ll experience the wonderful benefits. Experts suggest figuring out if you’re looking for a buzzy or rumbly vibe, the latter of which offers a deeper stimulation. “If you feel your bits are pretty sensitive, the buzzier vibes might be a better fit for you,” explains Rose, “and if you feel you need more intense stimulation, go for something more rumbly.”
“Another important factor to consider is how the vibrator is charged: battery-powered (often more affordable), rechargeable (usually via USB), or the good old-fashioned plug-in-the-wall vibe,” says Rose. There’s also size (ranging from tiny bullet vibrators to large wands), shape, and color to consider, especially if you want your vibe to be discreet. “Some are really subtle and most people wouldn’t even know it’s a vibrator, while others are very clearly a sex toy,” adds Rose.
You can also use a vibrator during partnered play. You can place a larger vibrator between both of your bodies, or—in the case of long-distance relationships—you can buy a vibrator that your partner can control from miles away. “Many couples report that simply trying a new vibe can encourage them to talk about sex in terms of desires, preferences, and fantasies,” says O’Reilly.
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Best Overall Vibrator for Beginners: Doxy Die Cast Wand Massager, $170
