What Women Are Attracted to – The 5 Things Every Woman Wants in a Man
Alright guys, here it is; the five things all women are attracted to. Get at least three of these down, and you’ll be getting more arse than a toilet seat.
The first thing is money. A lot of people say that money isn’t important but I’m here to dispel this false rumor. Money is king. It gets you whatever you want, and it literally shoots the panties off of women. One time I pulled up to a club in my Lamborghini and it was raining panties- no joke. Have money, and you can have any woman you want; PERIOD.
The second thing you must have is a G5 private jet. This is much like the money example, but in my opinion it stands on its own. Get a private jet, preferably one with its own tanning bed and tanning butler. Get that thing painted up like a home depot race car, slap a naked girl decal on the tail rudder, and watch what happens. Raining panties? Forget about it, you’ll be the thunder god himself.
The third thing you need is a heavy hitting Johnson. If you believe the notion that “size doesn’t matter,” you’re living a lie (don’t feel bad if you’re living a lie. I’m living like 3 of ’em). Just to set things straight, Size DOES matter. If you’re presently rolling an angry inch, you really need to upgrade that little bastard, and roll up on these betties with a giant cucumber in your pants. To extenuate the effect I suggest some tight leather pants to “air seal” that bad Jackson and show the world that you’re pissed off and ready to party.
The fourth thing you’ll need is a parrot. Get yourself a nice blue crested macaw. Have you ever wondered why pirates went with the parrot look? It’s cuz it’s the gold standard for championhood, that’s why. Walk down the street with a parrot on your shoulder and women will know you’re a man who commands respect.
And the fifth and final thing is to be very very good looking. It doesn’t matter what you look like right now. Even if you look like a walking candy apple with a giant head and a little body, it’s all good. Plastic surgery is the answer. Just have the doctor carve you up a new look. Get a butt implant and some new calves. Get a blonde weave and some new eyes. A gold grill with your last name along the front? Hey man, do what you gotta do! Just remember to be very very good looking every morning when you wake up and all will fall into place.
So summing up- In order to attract women you must have money, a G-5, a long sha-long, a parrot, and you must be very very good looking. If you don’t have these, you’re screwed.
Alright, I was feeling decidedly random and had to throw some sarcasm in. The sad things is, many people still believe that money and looks are necessary to attract women. Even the Johnson example probably convinced a few people. It’s a sad day in America when great guys cut themselves short because they don’t have those external attributes. If they realized seduction is something that can be learned, regardless of what you look like or what your current situation is, I’m sure a lot more guys would actually step up and make that change. As a guy who teaches this stuff, it’s like having a life raft with the inability to throw it to a drowning man- unless he asks.
The truth is, you can live in your moms basement, be unemployed, look like the sham wow guy and still attract hot women. Don’t believe it? Well, I’ve seen it happen myself. And it’s only because these guys communicate attractive qualities which are strong enough to plow past all their external shortcomings.
So let’s get into it. What are the 5 most attractive qualities in a man?
The first attractive quality is confidence. You’ve heard it before, but it bears repeating. Women are hard wired to become attracted to men who are sure of themselves. Why? Because it shows they have the faculty to influence their own lives and the lives of others. And since women are programmed to desire men who can effectively care for a family (as well as pass on strong survival-traits to their young), they unconsciously desire men who are sure of themselves- Moms basement or not.
The second quality is decisiveness. I’ve been told time and time again from my attractive girl-friends’ that the number one reason they blow out guys is because they’re not decisive. If, at any time, you put the burden of making important decisions on her such as saying: “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” you just pissed attraction right out the window. I always laugh when I see those movies where the nerd gets the girl cuz he’s so “cute and vulnerable.” That’s nothing but pure bullshavich. He says things like: “Just tell me how you want me to be and I’ll be that way!” Yeah right! That will get you blown out so fast your mustache will fly off when the concussion hits.
Here’s the key- Take the girl to where she wants to be lead. You don’t have to be an overbearing control freak, but you should be decisive to the point where you make the decisions and lead her to places and situations that make her feel good. And if she does want to make decisions (which you should certainly let her do), make it so that you’re approving of what she wants and allowing it to happen. For example, if you guys are just hanging out and she really wants to eat at my future restaurant which I’m going to call “The Burrito Jockey,” you can say: “That actually sounds really good. Mark Sing and his business associate Hey Zues make a mean, mean, angry burrito. C’mon, let’s go.” This is called leading her to where she wants to be lead.
The third quality is independence. What women are attracted to emotionally and what they think they’re attracted to rationally are two very different things. When they tell you they want a guy who makes them feel like a queen, who waits on them hand and foot, and who takes them to Oprah’s, ballets, and chick flicks, they’re speaking rationally. Women are attracted to men who put their lives first. The second most toxic dynamic you can impose upon a girl is neediness. If you put her first, you’re done. They want to miss you, and see that you’re ambitious and involved in your own life. They want a guy who has things going on in his life; they want to know that their man will survive with or without them. They want to feel like they have to fight a little bit for his attention, and miss him when he’s not around. They want a MAN. And a man is a person who leads a life of value.
The fourth quality is charisma. Charisma is defined as the ability to make people feel better about themselves, or in a better mood from having met you. The ability to charm a woman and make her laugh is extremely important for attraction. The number one goal we’re striving for when seducing women is to make them feel good in our presence, all the while making them fight for it. The best way to make a girl feel good is to conversate with them in a charming way that makes them feel slightly teased, off their composure, not quite sure what you think of them, and always having to fight for your attention. And when you do finally give them attention, you lay it on with a certain indefinable charm. All men who are good with women know exactly how to do this.
The last, and probably most important quality of an attractive man is composure. We teach a concept in our seminars which we call the “inner balance point.” I intend to write an article about this subject in the near future, but for now, imagine it like a straight line running vertically within you. In your day to day life, when there is little to no social pressure, we like to say that you’re ON this inner balance point; you’re straddling it. You’re calm and centered and nothing is throwing you off. But, when social pressure-type situations occur, and if you have a weak inner balance point, you’re getting thrown off your composure and reacting to the outside world as a means to get back on it.
Women are unconsciously attracted to men who have a strong inner balance point. When outside situations occur, the attractive man is composed and poised. He deals with the situation not as a means to get back on point, but from a place of calm, because truly, the situation had little to no affect on him. The stronger your inner balance point, the more women will become attracted to you. So, when social pressure type situations occur, keep this concept in mind. Be composed, be un-reactive, give the situation a wry smile, and deal with it with a cool head. If a woman sees you behave this way, then instant attraction will result because of it.