8 Things Women Do Not Want to Hear on the First Date
There are many things that you should not disclose on the first date. A lot of times women do not want to hear every bare bone secret that you have. You should learn what things you shouldn’t talk about on a first date. Women have opened up, spoken, and let men all over the world know what they would prefer not to hear when it comes to going on a first date with someone that they have just met.
8. “My ex is home watching our kids right now.”
– If you’re going on and on about your ex, chances are she is going to think that you still want your ex. If you talk about how great of a relationship you have had with her, and that she is still a very big, involved part of your life then this is not the type of guy a potential girlfriend is going to want as her boyfriend. The risk being – she does not want her heart broken because of the risk that you might leave her, and go back to your ex.
7. “I’d love to see you in a dress next time.”
– If you’re telling her what to wear and how to wear it, she is going to take this as you’re trying to make her into something she is not. She is going to want a guy who likes her for her, and not for what he wants her to be. You do not want to try to ‘control’ her or you’re going to lose her.
6. “I actually still live with my ex.”
– This is definitely not something she wants to know. This is something that is much too complicated for any girl to get involved in. Better yet, if you still live with your ex, you should probably wait until you move out to start dating. It would be best for everyone involved.
5. “I have never been in a long term or serious, committed relationship.”
– Unless you’re both young, this might be a sign of commitment issues. Most likely, she is looking for some sort of strong, long term relationship, and if you can’t commit, then why is she even on this date anyway?
4. “I still live with my parents, and uh… I don’t have a job.”
– This is never, ever a good thing to say on the first date. Women like men who have jobs, are stable, and also independent. If they find out that you need someone to take care of you then you can kiss dating, serious relationships, or anything else goodbye, especially if you’re a middle aged man.
3. “Can you believe that she put a restraining order on me?” – Why would she want to date a psycho? Why was the restraining order put on you? For stalking her? This is something that you do not want to put out there on the first date. You might also be putting yourself out there as not such a good, stable individual when you have to go around and bother your ex.
2. “I don’t have any hobbies.” – Women like men who have hobbies, and who are passionate about something. If you do not show any passion for something, then what can you do together? They are going to give up on you since you’re no fun or dull.
1. “I would like you to meet my friend Joe.” – Who brings their friends on first dates with them, or invites them to show up? This shows that you’re not at all interested in what she has to say, so you decided to invite your buddy along. This is not a message you want to be sending to her. This is an incredibly immature thing to do.